Every woman has a long list of characteristics that make up her perfect guy. So when a guy, who meets the criteria (or almost meets them, at least), comes into her life, it can be a challenge for her to get him to take a second look, much less hold his gaze. What exactly does a woman have to do to win the man of her dreams? Here are seven proven tricks.
Love yourself. Beneath all the great physical attributes men admire in women is something that gets them hooked even more. Confidence. Any man you like can spot you if you exude positivity, charm and confidence. While you may not be a perfect Barbie doll, you have other things you can be proud of, so get out there and flaunt them.
Say what you want. A guy loves a woman in control. There's something that turns them on when a woman says exactly what she wants, and gets it. Perhaps it's because men are so used to being at the top, that when a woman is independent, fresh and vocal, men think it's hot.
Earn and keep his respect. Never show him a side of you which he will interpret to be easy, loud and too liberated for words. When getting to know the man of your dreams, it pays to be decent and casual. Anything too extreme will only get him to use you to his advantage and leave you afterwards. Most of all, show respect for yourself and for others.
Learn the art of listening. If you have a foul mouth, now's the time to put a lid on it. If you like getting drunk and dirty, you may need to be sober while you're trying to make a good impression.
Learn how to cook his favorite dish. The way to a man's heart is through spoonfuls of his favorite food, made with love and your own twist. Learning how to prepare a dish that will keep him coming back for more is a sure and easy way to whet a man's appetite.
Make him work for it. If you intend to keep this guy interested in you, you will need to add mystery, intrigue and lots of challenges that will not turn him off, but will encourage him to work for you. Don't be too available when he asks you out. While you may be tempted to sleep with him on the first date, remember:
This is the guy of your dreams, and you do not want him walking out of your apartment while you're asleep. So tease all you want, but never put out until you've gotten to know him better. Build his anticipation, so when he's been really good, he'll have a really sweet surprise.
Go to a guy event with him. While he may not be thrilled at the idea of coming with you to your gal pal's tea party, he will be turned on when you willingly go with him to a guy event, like the Superbowl, or a boxing match. It tells him you're flexible and are willing to get to know him by indulging in the things he enjoys. Who knows? You might end up actually enjoying it.
Give him his own space. A mistake many women make when they meet the guy of their dreams is to smother him thinking that if they don't, they're just going to lose him. A guy needs his own time and space.
Too much drama early on scares him away. He needs you know you can get to know each other casually before you both jump into a more serious commitment. Give him all the time he needs. You will also need this time to get to know him. Sometimes, no matter how we deny it, our supposedly dream guys don't quite turn out who we thought them to be.
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